Setting Out Your Funeral
Make your farewell truly your own. Whether you’ve thought about specific songs, a type of service, or just want to keep things simple, writing down your funeral wishes gives clarity to loved ones and peace of mind for you.
Your Life, Your Wishes
What Are Funeral Wishes?
Funeral wishes are a simple but important way to let your loved ones know how you’d like your funeral to be handled. Whether you have preferences for music, location, readings, or something more personal, setting out your wishes means your voice is still part of the day, even if you’re no longer here to speak it.
At Deborah Mitchell Independent Funeral Services in Washington, we help individuals document and store their funeral wishes with sensitivity and clarity. You don’t need to plan every detail, unless you want to. It’s about giving guidance, removing guesswork, and helping your family feel confident in the choices they make on your behalf.
We’ll talk you through what’s possible, what you might want to consider, and how best to record your wishes in a way that makes things simpler later on.
Document Your Wishes Clearly
We’ll help you set out your thoughts so your family knows exactly what you want.
No Commitment, Just Clarity
There’s no obligation to pre-pay or pre-arrange anything. This is simply about peace of mind.
A Gift to Your Family
Having your wishes in place lifts a burden from your loved ones at a difficult time.
Why Choose Us
Supportive Guidance Without Pressure
We’ve helped many people across Washington and Tyne and Wear create clear, compassionate funeral wish plans. We take the time to listen and talk things through in a way that feels natural and easy.
There’s never any pressure or expectation. Whether you want to write down just a few thoughts or go into detail, we’re here to support your choices and give you the confidence that your wishes will be known.
Deborah was kind and empathetic, made us feel at ease, and we were helped and comforted throughout the whole process. Highly recommended.
From the first phone call to the final farewell, DMIFS provided unparalleled support and guidance. Their dedication to helping families is evident in everything they do.
Keep It Simple or Go Into Detail
Your Plan, Your Way
Some people like to choose music, flowers, or even the tone of the day. Others prefer to write down just a few important preferences that help guide their family. Whether you’re someone who finds comfort in detail or would rather keep it brief and simple, there’s no right or wrong way to approach your funeral wishes.
It’s your opportunity to ensure your voice is part of the process, even when you’re not there to speak it. We’re here to help you make sure it’s written in a way that feels right for you and easy for others to follow.
We will compile your wishes and placed in a folder for you to keep alongside your other important documents at home or can be shared directly with your family. Either way, the important thing is that your voice is heard. A signed copy of your wishes is also safely stored at our premises for peace of mind knowing that a back up copy is available if ever required.
Start Your Funeral Wishes with DM Funeral Services
Let us help you record your thoughts clearly and simply so your family knows exactly what you want.
Other Funeral Options We Offer
In addition to traditional funerals, we provide alternative services across Washington and Tyne and Wear:
Funeral Planning
Begin preparations in advance with the support of our experienced team, ensuring peace of mind for you and your family.
Direct Cremation
A simple, respectful farewell without a service or gathering, ideal for those seeking a more private option.
Horse Drawn Hearse
A dignified and traditional choice, offering a beautiful and timeless way to accompany your loved one.
Private Family Service
An intimate setting for close friends and family to say goodbye in a calm, personal environment.

Naomi Deberry